attachment........

The word attachment…may be the word that is being used by the youth so often like ‘Im attached to him/her..’ Well the same word holds a great importance in my life. The happiest and worst moments of my life are both a means to remember n realize the essence of this word. What is actually attachment?? oops even I too don’t have a specific definition for it…I have heard many definitions given by my friends n all n ofcorse some have shocked me..hehe..Some says sharing everything..all ur thoughts n secrets is attachment..like he/she is ur another self.. well I cnt agree fully to this coz I have felt attachments to some who doesn’t know my secrets or who is another myself…bt I do believe sharing can be a part of attachment bt not sharing is attachment…I have heard some saying night talks makes ppl get attached to each other..to this also I cnt agree completely cos as far as am considered the same can work out only if the person in other end is someone special..am nt mentioning lover or something so…night talks doesn’t alwys result in the so called attachment…well some more definitions are there which made me think a lot regarding this simple word bt actually I was not able to agree fully to any of those..different ppl think differently na…bt from ma side if I say abt attachment….its something sweet as well as painful…a source to realize what love and cheating is…I believe attachment helps us realize the situations in life..helps us grow better rather than being a dumb creature….in my life am attached to only few ppl bt it doesn’t mean I love only those ppl…as far as im considered I trust others blindly so itself get attached easily too…bt often such love attachment n all results in pain..earlier I was very much attached to all my friends n that time I was made to realize the harsh reality..It was so late to recognize hoe beautifully n skillfully many of my friends took advantage of the beautiful bond of attachment…I realized this is ‘one’ possibility…But being always a bad student I couldn’t hold bak myself from getting attached to others…This time the new set of ppl showed me some other possibilities.Atlast there came asituation that I cnt tolerate anymore pains out of love,trust,attachment n such stuffs…Idecided to be in my world with the few who loves me n I trust..my dear ones..While life was going on smoothly there came a new entry..many a times I restricted myself bt atlast I got attached to that person..As we say history repeats..the outcome was same as before…But the new possibility was a great lesson for me..it made me change a loot… After a looong gap now am attached to some ppl bt this time am sure however hard they try none and nothing can let me down for....

“Feelings being frozen

My heart doesn’t ache…”